There are many experiences in my life that helped me get to understand that I can make a positive impact on many: bad home life growing up; ridicule throughout school; discipline through the military; skills acquired during 32 years in the IT industry; not so good marriages; and success and struggles as an entrepreneur. Recently, I was struggling with money in my business. During my Master Practitioner in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy (TLT), and Hypnosis training, I discovered that money wasn’t even on my list of Business Values. Imagine that! No wonder it was such a struggle to keep the bills paid. There were a lot of other great things: quality, customers, ethics, etc. But no real thoughts of money. This may be hard to believe since I seemed to be thinking about it all the time. Values are not something you list on a pretty piece of paper and place on your office wall. They are complex and intangible higher-level functions of your subconscious mind and are intimately linked to our beliefs about what is good or bad, right or wrong. Values can be reordered to support your business, health, and relationship goals. I’ve reordered mine, and since then, AMAZING things have been happening!
Another thing I discovered was that I had limiting decisions which were keeping me from advancing toward my goals. A limiting decision is a decision that I made based on various experiences (primarily from the age of 8-18), which created the beliefs in what I could or couldn’t accomplish. Things like I’m not worthy; I’m not loved; I’m fat and unattractive; I must conform; I must manage my debt (not my wealth…), etc. Once I eliminated these limiting decisions through NLP and TLT, I was able to do even more AMAZING things!
What the limiting decisions did was to keep me from remembering the AMAZING things I know and can do. Things like: I have a passion and will power that drives me, I must embrace and be relentless about what I want; I’m smart and can learn anything; I can apply my experiences to support my goals and apply that knowledge in a practical manner; I am a survivor; and best of all – I have lots of great people in my support network who love me!
This is what I can help you achieve with the magnificence you already have within you!
- CategoryAnger Management, Fears, Hypnosis, Life Coaching, Marriage Counseling, Nationwide Services, NLP, PTSD, Smoking Cessation, Teletherapy, Weight Management
- LocationArlington County (VA), Fairfax County (VA), Loudoun County (VA), Virginia